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Hello Laila, my name is *******, am a married woman. I got married two years ago, from the day my husband came to our house with his people, his brother took a special likeness for me, and it was obvious whenever this brother of his sees me, he will always hug me and hold me tight. Initially I felt it was harmless so I played along and even started calling him my husband too.

Things continue without issues until sometime last year when my husband got a lecturing job at ********* university, the appointment meant that he spends lesser time at home with me and more time in school, he often comes home sometime once in 2 or 3 weeks. Staying alone with our son became lonely for me, I told him and he suggested that I should bring his or my younger sibling, I was even the one who suggested his brother who was still job hunting because was free with him and that was the beginning of my problems. My husband inform him and ask him to leave his base in Lagos to come stay with us in Port-Harcourt, I was over-joyed because honestly, the loneliness in the house was driving me crazy. When he arrived around July last year, my husband opened up a poultry business to keep busy with while he is still searching for another job because his passion is in banking. Our routine then was simply stay at the poultry after school run and gist the entire whole day away, I wasn’t working then because my husband said no work until after raising kids. While all this was going on I will always tease him about not having a girlfriend. Whenever I tease him about it, he will say I am his wife so he doesn’t need a girl friend anymore, all the signs was there but I ignored them thinking it was nothing. The first thing that in noticed was that he started been unhappy whenever my husband is around, but whenever he leaves the normal happy him re-appears. Late one night, I started vomiting, it was a case of severe food poisoning, he drove me to the hospital and called my husband to inform him of my sickness, my husband spoke with the doctor and the doctor told him I have acute typhoid fever and Hepatitis A for which I was treated and discharged. The doctor warned me to stay off some certain foods and rest properly when I go home. When we got back home, my brother in-law showed me enough love day and night, he took care of me, cook the foods, wash the dishes and also taking my son to and from school. Imagine my surprise when I got to the bathroom one morning and discovered that my brother in-law washed the underwear I soaked overnight, I was embarrassed and thrilled at the same time because my husband has never gone near my under wear talk more of washing them. I didn’t know how to thank him, so I called him hug and pecked him and told him how happy I was but told him not to try it again, he told me there was nothing wrong in washing my under wear that after all I am his wife. We laughed it off but it didn’t stop there but I also noticed he had an instant erection when I hugged him but I pretended not to notice so I would not embarrass him any further, he kept on doing it any chance he got that I had no other option than to start hiding my under wear, I don’t even soak them anymore. One night around September, I slept off while we were watching movie late at night only to wake up in his arms when he was carrying me to the bed, I wanted to scream at him but something held me back, I actually like the way he pampers me so I wouldn’t like to discourage him, he carried me as if I was breakable and place me on the bed, covered me with duvet and kissed me goodnight on the fore head before leaving. Aunty Laila, that was the best any man including my husband has ever treated me, I couldn’t sleep again that night, the following days was horrible, the tension was as thick as kpomo, I was actually falling in love with him, I never believed this man came from the same womb with my authoritative husband, in contrast, the difference is clear. One thing led to another and one night when he carried me to bed as usual, I held him back when he wanted to leave and kissed him, he kissed me back and started caressing me, I tried stopping him but I was too weak, my whole soul and body wanted him and so we made love. I felt guilty but I couldn’t stop myself, our affair continued after that night, and to be honest, I had the best time of my life. Last week Wednesday, he came to me with a letter grinning from ear to ear, I told the letter from him and read it, it was a letter of appointment with access bank and the sad news was that  they were posting him to a new branch in Delta state and he  is to resume in march, i have been crying my eyes out begging him not to leave me, he told  me what we had was real but wrong but that he will be coming every weekend, this was the first time he was refusing me something in his entire life, I feel used  because I know if I was in his shoes I wouldn’t leave him just like that upon the sacrifices I made including cheating on my husband. He seduced me into this in the first place. Since then, I have not spoken a word to him. I know I am wrong in everything I have done but you have to be in my shoe, experience what I have experienced before you judge me. . I didn’t know I have become this attached to him. I cry myself to sleep every night and I have lost weight. I don’t know how to survive when he leaves. Please I need help from people who have been in such a situation before to please tell me how to stop loving somebody who dosnt love you anymore
I am having suicidal feelings. It is that bad 

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Bonita Bislam

This is the first story that touched me here.Hmmmmmmmm.
Madam pls go on a vacation.To your parent aunts.Just anywhere ma'am. Trust me it'll help

Wilheminna Moses

Really!? I will be so glad to help u with d suicidal feeling aswear! Ibu ezi bida!

Presh Chinny

Hmmm… You really need to let go of him… Stop whatsoever feelings u have for him and move on… And when he leaves don't let him come back to your house anymore….. This is the time to concentrate on ur family

Osarhieme Okungbowa

Not only are you an adulterous woman you are a disgrace to womanhood! When I first started to read your wretched story I thought you were ending in a 'guilty' note and probably begging man and God for your wrong. Instead…!
Wake up from your delusions woman. (Now mind u even if u wake at this point)harvest yet awaits you big time!
Leave this young man alone and face your marriage. Mend what's left of the broken union and if you cannot because of the height of your immorality leave and then freely go ahead to find who will assuage the passion in your loins but certainly not your bro-in-law..you hear?
And stop giving your hubby a bad name. At this point he's a saint!
Yeah u got kids right? I fear for their upbringing. Can a woman who lacks virtue bring up children the way they should go?

enoma osaigbovo

Shameless bitch! After cheating on your husband u still have dirty mouth to talk. Shameless she goat like you.And that wicked useless brother in law of yours another person close to him will bang his wife too…shameless bitch…whore

Rosemary Chidi A.

Don't even know what to type…
Just forget abt him some things are not meant to be afterall. Look for sth to busy urself with

alfarsi

U and ur super story Laila this ain't real only a fool will take it and comment on believing it it's just fictitious fantasy.

Derrick Chidumebi

You have suicidal feelings? Your husband will soon show you the murderous feelings he has towards you when he learns of this… Mtchew… You are not even remorseful…

WeALTHY ChIC

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WeALTHY ChIC

Madam u re a disgrace to Ur family. U slept with Ur brother in law and u had the impetus to come here and blab about being in love with him. SHAME ON YOU.

t

Read Three Sisters http://lifelib.blogspot.com.ng/2015/01/three-sisters.html
Life is beautiful and remains beautiful nothing new under the sun you will live long. Amen.

ANONYMOUS

Hmmmm!

Anonymous

Your husband younger brother!! this is an illicit immoral affair. Why not divorce your husband and marry him instead and how does that look. Madam this is Adultery an abomination at the highest order! your story is appalling in-fact it is an aberration. From the way you ended your story it shows you are not even ready to change but enjoying it. My dear repent confess to Jesus and forsake your ways you have to confess to your hubby too. It is obvious you brother in-law does not love his brother did you even think he will marry you? God loves you and He can change you. God bless.

Omalicha Uju

Super Story!!!!!

Asidanya South

If I want to type something. Vex no go gree me. Is it the fact that she cheated and foolishly blames d guy for seducing her? Or the fact that she actually has no remorse about her sins? You want to commit suicide lol… Enjoy urself while you are at it.

david kachikwu

Chai you just commited the worst sin on earth.(ADULTERY) ONE thing you should know is that its wrong. Sleeping with your husband brother. Chai my advice for you. Ask God for forgiveness and don't ever try it again cus if your husband finds out damn you're so so dead.

lizzy Raph

I understand how you feel it is not easy to be or even live with such a romantic guy who has everything your husband lacks the mistake has already been made i will advise you to go back to God and ask for forgiveness and then tell Him to take away such feelings from you He has all the answers..

chidinma igbokweuche

My dear u for just waka pass after reading..
Poster I jst want to ask u one question.. How would you feel if you found out ur hubby ws having an affair with ur sister n has no remorse n is evn killin himself bcos her.
Wn u answer dt truthfully u hv ur answer

Mazino Oyolo Kigho

Hope those condemning her of adultery are also free from sin of fornication.

She is has no remorse feeling.
Instead of abandoning your sinful ways you want more.
You deserve no forgiveness from your husband.
You are a disgrace.
Because of you husbands will stop trusting their brothers.

http://www.educationzip.info

popeyes

Once a woman cheats the first time in her marriage she will always find a reason to do so again. This writer will sleep with the next available man that comes into her home. Houseboy driver maiguard….. all will be fair game for this loose woman.

popeyes

Once a woman cheats the first time in her marriage she will always find a reason to do so again. This writer will sleep with the next available man that comes into her home. Houseboy driver maiguard….. all will be fair game for this loose woman.

Chukwuebuka jay

It is well… #Successful

Zombie huntress

I swear that vex wey dey vex me as a woman myself no make me knw wetin I go type. Your husbands brother?what kind of feeling is that you are not just contented with ur husbands dick and ur husbands bro dick Don sweet u so tele u no fit do without am just go before God and ask for forgiveness u really need jesus

Zombie huntress

I swear that vex wey dey vex me as a woman myself no make me knw wetin I go type. Your husbands brother?what kind of feeling is that you are not just contented with ur husbands dick and ur husbands bro dick Don sweet u so tele u no fit do without am just go before God and ask for forgiveness u really need jesus

maya naisha

Ur husbands broda o wow! Lol n u actually first kissed him lol n den ur begn him not to go lol n den ur sucidal madam take a sit pls dis is not an Issue may God sha help u!

Sasha Sasha Fierce

Isehhhhhhh! Loooolll! My eye af see my ear!!! Ashewo woman. Sacrifice kor. Please don't stop there o. Your neighbour's husband is also very tender and romantic. Go sun kpekus for dia too. Na your husband I jur dey sorry for because if you born three for am two no go be him get.

9jaWHISPERER

I have never commented on lailas blog b4 but Aunty i have to …Please try and kill any sort of feeling u have Jesus Love. be disciplined.. their women who lost their husband at an early stage but refused to get married and they cud bear it… u re a woman u can control ur feelings dont let the devil use u. ur husband u get to see him at least ..everybody has their default so dont blame urhubby in his shortcoming

Anonymous

The devil must be working on you to have taken you this far. So sinful and shameful at the same time and she is even bold enough to seek advice on how to continue in the act. may God forgive and deliver you WO-man!

Anonymous

The devil must be working on you to have taken you this far. So sinful and shameful at the same time and she is even bold enough to seek advice on how to continue in the act. may God forgive and deliver you WO-man!

Anonymous

its well! see a psychologist! #lailaspilot

sir johnny

Hmm..so u jst want to break ur husband family nd ur home as well..screwing ur hubby bro nd fallin in love..dont knw wat 2 tell u sef

As 4 u "suicidal feeling" jst mak sure to use made in 9ja rope..ad 2 our economy b4 u kil ya sef

Anonymous

Shut up….its not every time you should comment.

Anonymous

Aunty Talking from experience?

Ayzee A

Repeat after me…..I am……I am…..I am……I am…..

kclub

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Anonymous

Dear adulterous woman kindly go ahead and commit suicide your sins are unforgivable. You might have consolation in hell that you so deserve.

Rotten Tomatoes

See God talking….. The author n finisher of people's faith…… Almighty judge of d whole world….. King of all virtuous babez….. I bow 4 u

Rotten Tomatoes

Worst sin on earth……. Waooow

Rotten Tomatoes

Are u minding them…… See them and their bag of stones looking for who to kill with it……

Lady B

Hmmm..speechless

Lady B

Hmmm..speechless

Culture

Leave your husband's brother alone phucking bitch or are you insane?!…..There are other nice and romantic Guyz out there….Many randy d*cks to satisfy your craving P*ss and incase you forgot you're married take a look at your Son….You need to Overhaul your mind coz When you love d*ck pass life itself you will always feel lonely even in the midst of a great crowd coz you just wanna hide and f*ck….Abeg make I no get your report again say you kill yourself because of Oga brother D*ck ohh.

nnaji Anne

Sniper kills fast shaa… one tea spoon in the morning

Chris

Some story sha. Woman free your husband and leave the marriage. You are not worthy of him anymore.

Chris

Lol

tonia oserei

Madam may thunder strike u as u are comitting suicide. And as for dat useless brother inlaw of urs may his wife be banged by someone very close to him. D both of u are trash . Dontforget to comitt suicide ohhh. Death awaits d useless brother inlaw oshi

Anonymous

Ask God's forgiveness first. You need to forgive yourself too. The sooner you find something to do the better. Focus on rebuilding your relationship with God your husband yourself and child. The greater the distance between you and bro-in-law the better for you. He's going to move on with his life and all you'll have is your family… He's not worth it.

Anonymous

I cannot condemn you because every one on this blog are not better than you and yet they are condemning you. Take a new leave forgive yourself confess your sin to your husband and God. Then continuously ask for mercy while living a new life that will please God but the consequences must surely come (Adultery is a serious offence which God said he will personally supervise the persons punishment).If God supervises your punishment who can deliver you.

saint phonsz

Rotten Tomatoes are you married? Something tells me you're either the poster or you've had similar affair

Ebuka favour

IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO KILL YOURSELF ADULTEROUS WOMAN….. YOU ARE A DISGRACE

Anonymous

Lol didn't you just judge and condem her too?

The stone

Why is everybody condemning her like this? as if u are all free from sin. She has self awareness realising she needs help which is seen from her penultimate sentence.
Pls my dear visit a counsellor because you need to talk to someone its a burden in your heart that must be let out. Find something you love and be engulfed with it you will be fine. But ultimately you have to confess to your husband and face what ever consequence that comes from it after asking God for mercy.so that you will be free otherwise you will continually be in bondage cos of the act with your brother in law.

The stone

Well said

The stone

Affirmation

cynthia kama

Rotten Tomatoes…lmao@ your comment.

Bamidele

Lmfao!

Sweetest Vivienne

U guys are so mean mehn..lol

Anonymous

Truth!

Anonymous

Hahaha… you're very wicked ooo… Lmao @ use naija rope and add to the economy…..

Faith Samuel

Lol

Michelle Ojong

Single people be judging married people. Make una marry first and see wassup. P.s: not saying what she did was right but make una judge small small.

Anonymous

Dear Friend i am going through the same exact thing only mine happened a little differently. I am head over heals with my husband's younger cousin to the point that i do not know what to do if and when the story ends. we can hook up and have a heart to heart if you do not mind. i will share my details with Laila via email and if i honestly hope she shares it with you. i would very much like to speak to you together we can get over this.

lisa peters

I share the same feeling with Bonita most of the beautiful things we feel or see are always wrong … let go and be focused you shouldn't have allowed it in the first place ….anyway who am I to judge ?

lisa peters

Ominiknowest

Anonymous

If it was a man will you say the same? Bias bunch.

Anonymous

You didnt tell us if you guys have had sex….Mehn….you ladies are scaring a young bachelor here….NO other MALES in the house when person marry…NOT even a MALE cat.

Anonymous

Lady! if really you are married from your write up then you MUST be delusional. Trust me!

Ifeoluwa

Normally I do not judge people because I believe growth is different. But I just can't stand it when people justify their actions or try to garner pity for it. Now u said urself u have noticed he was getting too close when u by ur suggestion invited him into your home. Who should have been avoiding like a plague if not him? Don't you have a sister or even brother to keep you company? I am sorry but I feel like you had it coming. Also you pulled him in to kiss him and then we he started u asked him abi na wanted him to stop really? Anyways the deed is done and I hope you now see that the guy doesn't love you he is a just a selfish fool that wanted to have his way with you. And I don't understand people's kind of love that is targeted at hurting others ppl be excusing evil for love. Whatever is making you want to kill urself is not love. He probably was better in bed than your husband and that's what's affecting you. Solution: ask for forgiveness ask God to deliver you from lust get occupied or u will just kill urself for the most selfish reason ever: lust.
Excuse any typos

Anonymous

Fake story. Access bank will not post you immediately to Delta state. You will do training school in Lagos first for about 3/4 months. Ijeoma i sight what you are doing.

Anonymous

Heiya. This goes a long way to show that if you treat a lady very well she will love you the more. I really learnt a lot from your story. I just have to start treating my swidi right. Now I realize I've not been living up to expectation but with this your story I have to step up my game towards my lady. Thanks for sharing and I hope you correct yourself and do what is right.

Anonymous

Lol youre the ignorant one….3 – 4 months in lagos keh? LOL

Godwin Liwhu

prostitute

Anonymous

Me too I have never commented on laila's blog b4. But wait o! who ask u weda u don comment b4 or not. Smh

Anonymous

Your insult isn't needed. Just help the lady with an advice if you have any and stop acting righteous.

Anonymous

Either 1 or 2 of these 3 things is involved in this situation.

1) This story is fake.

2) Your brother-in-law is trying to get back at your husband for some un reconciled issues they had in the past (perhaps when they were growing up)

3) You are both very dumb and weak in the flesh.

Kuchifire

All a woman needs is love. Give her the kind of love she wants and she's yours.

Now dear poster I realize that sometimes the wrong things are easier and enjoyable "at the moment " but the consequences are usually grave. Think about your husband what will you do if he sleeps with your sister? How will you react if he not only sleeps with her but is into her to? How would his actions affect your family and immediate family if you were in his shoes now? After you have thought of these I would advise that you kindly use your energy to seek God first not for anything else but to make your ways straight with Him. Once you've done that the rest of the situation would be easier for you to bear but don't forget you'll have the effects of your actions your actions has caused but trust God FIRMLY.

Kuchifire

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Anonymous

Dumb ass.

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