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Chioma Angela Ada-Obi: Alfie is Sorry For Hurting You (Photos)

Hello Laila,

Please I would love you to help me with a favour. My name is Alfred Obare. well my gf broke up with me, and it’s kinda my fault. So I wrote a write-up for her.. It would really mean a lot to me and my relationship, if u could post it on your blog with a pic of ours.

I remember all the good times we shared,
All the memories we made together,
Both good and both bad..
You see we were special,
We had something no other couples did..
Yes, we fought a lot,
I was unbearable most times,
I was annoying and an ass too,
I made mockery of your friends,
I was too possessive and authoritative..
An Egocentric asshole I was,
And never considered your feelings..

It’s expected when people from two different worlds,
try to make a pact together,
In a bond called “love”..
It’s never gonna be easy,
But we made it work..
You were humble to me,
Loved me dearly and showed it,
Even put me first before anything..

You see I’m not that kinda guy that expresses his feelings,
But you should know this,
I appreciated every lil thing you did for me.
How you tickled my nipples(lol),
The smell of your farts (rotten eggs)
Your cooking,
How proud you were of me,
And most importantly,
how you loved and cared for me..
I really do appreciate it all..

I still got your text messages
From the very start of it all,
You said; “Hey; uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm just want to be a pest right now and I’m bored…anyways hope u die in ur sleep. …*kidding*”

And then your valentine’s day text
You said; Tnx for making dis day u so much my demi god..<3<3″

You once said “I’m your poison, u love me so much and it freaking hurts, that you gonna love me till i hate you”

You see I can go on all day,
Cuz the memories we made could last a life time..
I never regret anyone of them,
If I was to do it all over again,
I’ll will fall in love with you a million and one times..
Maybe I could change more and faster this time around,
But my love for you will forever remain the same..
I’ve seen many faces,
I’ve been many places,
Had many exes,
But non could be compared to you..
Like a spell casted upon me,
Unable to break free,
I’ve falling madly in love with you..
My thoughts filled with flickers of your images,
My dreams occupied with you in them..
I crave for you, like a kid craves chocolate..
I would trade the world, just for a day in your arms..
And in my last dying breathe,
My last gasp of air,
It would be your name on my lips,
Chioma Angela Ada-Obi (Nene)..
Your the best thing that’s ever, happened to me..

With tears rolling down my face,
I write my deepest thoughts,
I know you feel less for me now,
But I pray to God, that you develop
A spark, as tiny as a mustard seed
Of pure love for me…
You could save this lost soul of mine.

And to your friends,
I’m sorry for the way I acted towards them, spoke about them and how I treated you..
I’m a proud person, the old me would never apologize..
But I’ve changed, you changed me, Your happiness is my major priority, And I’m willing to settle any differences I’ve got with them or vice versa..
I just wanna say thank you tho,
even tho we may not go back to the way we were,
You thought me lots of lessons,
and you changed me to a better person..
You changed me Pookie bear, I would never forget that.
I LOVE YOU! ..(from alfie)



  1. Bonita Bislam

    May 19, 2015 at 4:04 pm

    #Chuckles…Nostalgic moment huh? Here's hoping the "To whom it may concern" is reading this and feeling u too

  2. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 4:09 pm

    Ooo poetry and prose by Alfie.

  3. Anwuli Oputa

    May 19, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    So sweet please Chioma accept his apologies.

  4. Ebuka favour

    May 19, 2015 at 4:21 pm

    Eeyah please forgive him. The smell of your farts(rotten eggs) very funny

  5. SeunOlowolagba

    May 19, 2015 at 4:24 pm

    Hope the write up is truly frm ur heart..?? If yes I wish u luck wit ur girl.. She is coming bk to you..mark my words

  6. SeunOlowolagba

    May 19, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Op is dt from ur heart or your mouth

  7. Omo Oba

    May 19, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Bro move on with your life…..if girls change their mind Hmmm!no amount of words will bring them back.She's probably fucking another guy now so she can't remember the past.That's their way of life.But if you make money now she will run back immediately.owo epo!!

  8. lord flacko

    May 19, 2015 at 4:28 pm

    Nice write up. But imagine if her data has finished and she doesn't get to read this post.

  9. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 4:28 pm

    Free Chioma abeg how can you disrespect people who were there before you they are there and you ain't. Allow her to be with someone who respects her abeg.

  10. lisa peters

    May 19, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    Okay ooo… Over to you Ada

  11. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    I can see why she broke up with him.


    May 19, 2015 at 4:33 pm

    Adaobi biko gbahara. Give him the last chance please


    May 19, 2015 at 4:33 pm

    Ada please forgive him for tge last time

  14. nosike anierobi

    May 19, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    Lol!!! Sorry bro!!! The chances of a girl that you described going back to old shit is rare!!! But really give my nigga a chance!!! A man going this way shows how desperate n miserable he is without u!! You guys are young n will have more quarrels I guarantee u but at last you will always be happy!!! Please!!! Bikonu!

  15. Stella Selorm Martins

    May 19, 2015 at 4:47 pm

    Nne please forgive and take his dumb ass back…you know his just your pookie lol cute.


    May 19, 2015 at 4:50 pm

    give ur life to Christ son

  17. kclub

    May 19, 2015 at 4:51 pm

    Awwwwwwww. So cute. Like seriously our problem is that when we know a someone is so much into us we feel we are irreplaceable and we 4gt to continue with all we did to make her fell 4 us. The both of you are cute together. @Chioma Angel pls and pls I think one more chance ant too much to ask for. Forgive him and continue with ur sweet relationship.

  18. nono blessedm

    May 19, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    His pookie bear pls forgive him.

  19. Deekay

    May 19, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    I dunno who I wanna slap more ; the girl that puts up with the nasty personality I am reading about or the guy for refusing to grow up.

    Tomorrow she will marry him and come and cry to us that he doesn't treat her right. Some people are just so ………SMH.

  20. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 5:11 pm

    aunty biko take this guy back before he kill us with long epistle and phd thesis

  21. Ambrose Alade

    May 19, 2015 at 5:34 pm

    Story for the gods

  22. Pino Pino Nwa

    May 19, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    This nigga is broke. The babe don go meet oshobaba for edo state

  23. Gbooye

    May 19, 2015 at 5:41 pm

    Lols…bro you try for this your write up oo..Im tryinh to grab a copy incase of what future might tel….

    Pleasr GF Kindly forgive and forget….

  24. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 5:42 pm


    Oya poster send her BIS 2k

  25. ed DREAMZ

    May 19, 2015 at 5:54 pm

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
    Mehn na so the love be…. God i dont want this abeg…..

  26. Vivienne Adah

    May 19, 2015 at 6:07 pm

    See Epistle…Pookie pls forgive him.

  27. Juliet Iwuno

    May 19, 2015 at 6:08 pm

    Ngwanu gf please forgive him.

  28. cinderellla

    May 19, 2015 at 6:25 pm

    Y'all are too emotional. See them advising the girl to go back. And did you take permission before bringing Her picture here? You actually thought you're irreplaceable.. okwalagi!

  29. me

    May 19, 2015 at 6:40 pm

    Grow some balls guy!! This doesn't and can never prove how muh you love her. I will never talk to you again if am the Chiima gal. Is not abt going public but abt fixing ur personal problems. Pls go out there get busy with something make money and see how seeet life is. She walked away becos of something…fix that first before this ur classless public announcement.

  30. nosike anierobi

    May 19, 2015 at 7:22 pm

    Comment of the year!! A zillion likes

  31. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    Stop trying to manipulate her into taking you back and work on yourself.

  32. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 8:09 pm

    Same here. He's immature. The entire idea of sending this in coupled with attaching her picture reference to fart her sms his exes and his attitude reeks immaturity.
    Please face your education grow up make a niche for your self. Maturity will come. Cheers.

  33. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 8:10 pm


  34. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 8:51 pm

    I thought I was the only one that thought this nonsense is so nauseating. Go and fix what caused the issue and beg her privately. All this public noise usually means nothing

  35. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 8:52 pm


  36. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 8:54 pm

    Illiterate idiot.

  37. Yep Epe

    May 19, 2015 at 9:14 pm

    Someone please explain to me hoe this fine girl ended up with this kid?

  38. Yep Epe

    May 19, 2015 at 9:14 pm


  39. Sylvonce

    May 19, 2015 at 9:32 pm

    They nevr know wht they have until the lose it. Y do I feel he is stil gonna go back to all d personalities he displayed in his writeup. Chioma it's up to u

  40. henry acho

    May 19, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    The guy is actually finer than d girl….

  41. jayjay

    May 19, 2015 at 11:14 pm

    I've got your Chioma now…..sweetest thing that ever happened to me…and she's always complaining of how you treated her. She's in good hands now.

  42. Anonymous

    May 19, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    Omo Oba i wish i know how to reward you this is something i really needed to hear …if a guy wants to break up with a girl he always has that guilty conscience but when it is a woman they dont look back i have been suffering for years now after effect of heartbreak i will take this your advice and channel my energy into making money u right i believe she will be back but i doubt i would take her back..thanks bro bless up from yinka d


    May 19, 2015 at 11:50 pm

    Chai!yyyy be say na when I de wtch pple de perform UNBREAK MY HEART 4 youtube Naim dis message come even seef I gatz download d soond 4 my fone my dear chi chi baby the truth is dis kind loove de hard to find oooo dis nigga loves u like kilode so my sis plsss take him back even tho u took a lot of shiit frm think about the new him nd I noticed dat he neva said anythng bad u did in d relationship even if u did any to all d MODAFUckerZ sayiiing Rubiish ShUuuuut d F up!una hear d bro iszz in pain una dey yarn dust my bro just keep trying she'll take u back coooz derz 1 thng I kn looove de hardly die so chci chci swallow dat voice in ur head nd d Nrmal blah blah frm ur frnd nd give broos anoda chance this cud be 4eva u kn.and u oga fllw d 12 commandment thou shall not fuck up gain na onto Ring tinz ooo..obviously afta sme heeen chi chi baby download Jill Scott-he loves me mke u taje our bro back abeg i stiiil de beg Abeeeg he's really sooory this iish mmakes me think of my first relaaationshiip loved her like kilode shaaa.

  44. Culture

    May 20, 2015 at 12:46 am

    Looks like one of those relationship that shouldn't be….Looks like she's gliding and He is slipping…… Poor boy I for Advice you but as you no cum ask i'll just keep reading this piece of "How You let her Slide away"

  45. bobo show

    May 20, 2015 at 4:41 am

    My guy what you did to this girl is not fair o Now one of her other boyfriend will see this n the girl will be in trouble.

  46. @michelleogo

    May 20, 2015 at 7:53 am

    Awww. Pls forgive him Pookie bear

  47. Anonymous

    May 20, 2015 at 8:11 am

    Mumu Yinka and mumuest omo oba let me be. Ice and explain why it happens like that. It's because girls take a lot of shit from guys. They keep taking shit and forgiving until they get fed up and there's no looking back. Rubbish guys. See as una dey bond on top nonsense. You people will say all the nonsense you did to the girl o. Kpcheew.

  48. pamela okonne

    May 20, 2015 at 9:54 am

    Awwww this is so cute. You both look good together. Sweetie if it's something you can forgive then you should at least try to hear him out. Wish you both luck and Alfie please appreciate what you have this goes out to all guys. Don't say because she's now your gf there's no more reason to impress her or appreciate her. Girls require assurance everyday as do guys. Have fun.

  49. Anonymous

    May 20, 2015 at 10:03 am

    Chioma please forgive him he has swallowed his pride to apologise nd he knws he is wrong plssssssssss

  50. Anonymous

    May 20, 2015 at 10:11 am

    How she tickle your nipples ? Children of these days stop fornicating. Smh

  51. Anonymous

    May 20, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Omo oba is ur real name Yinka nd u are a lasuite?

  52. Anonymous

    May 20, 2015 at 4:13 pm

    So Juliet don reach here.Blog Stroller of the decade guess this is your official job!

  53. Statuesque

    June 14, 2015 at 7:05 am

    lol guys like this dont change. they fuck up and then beg you with everything in the world. i am sure the babe has had enough of his bullshit. Oga give your life to Christ and he will direct you path cus as at now i dont think you know christ yet meaning there is still room for fuckup

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