A lot of my male chykers do that. We may not even be dating yet, once they sense you like them, they start finding the flimsiest excuses to ask you for money. When you don’t give them, they say you are stingy! Not wife material.
Then I had this boyfriend who called me one time and said he is broke. I felt sorry for him cos I know it happens. I bought breakfast, lunch and dinner for him that day. I bought him recharge card and gave him some money to go home. It’s not like I have so much money but I realise that love is about sharing and helping.
After this kind gesture, it kind of became a rule that whenever he asks me for money, that I have to give it to him.
When I tell him I have no money, he doesn’t believe me. Rather he makes some funny comments and had even kind of grown cold towards me.
That’s not fair or what do you think? Is it right for a guy to ask a girl for money?