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Married Blog Reader Who Was Seduced by Brother in Law Needs Help

Hello Laila, my name is *******, am a married woman. I got married two years ago, from the day my husband came to our house with his people, his brother took a special likeness for me, and it was obvious whenever this brother of his sees me, he will always hug me and hold me tight. Initially I felt it was harmless so I played along and even started calling him my husband too.

Things continue without issues until sometime last year when my husband got a lecturing job at ********* university, the appointment meant that he spends lesser time at home with me and more time in school, he often comes home sometime once in 2 or 3 weeks. Staying alone with our son became lonely for me, I told him and he suggested that I should bring his or my younger sibling, I was even the one who suggested his brother who was still job hunting because was free with him and that was the beginning of my problems. My husband inform him and ask him to leave his base in Lagos to come stay with us in Port-Harcourt, I was over-joyed because honestly, the loneliness in the house was driving me crazy. When he arrived around July last year, my husband opened up a poultry business to keep busy with while he is still searching for another job because his passion is in banking. Our routine then was simply stay at the poultry after school run and gist the entire whole day away, I wasn’t working then because my husband said no work until after raising kids. While all this was going on I will always tease him about not having a girlfriend. Whenever I tease him about it, he will say I am his wife so he doesn’t need a girl friend anymore, all the signs was there but I ignored them thinking it was nothing. The first thing that in noticed was that he started been unhappy whenever my husband is around, but whenever he leaves the normal happy him re-appears. Late one night, I started vomiting, it was a case of severe food poisoning, he drove me to the hospital and called my husband to inform him of my sickness, my husband spoke with the doctor and the doctor told him I have acute typhoid fever and Hepatitis A for which I was treated and discharged. The doctor warned me to stay off some certain foods and rest properly when I go home. When we got back home, my brother in-law showed me enough love day and night, he took care of me, cook the foods, wash the dishes and also taking my son to and from school. Imagine my surprise when I got to the bathroom one morning and discovered that my brother in-law washed the underwear I soaked overnight, I was embarrassed and thrilled at the same time because my husband has never gone near my under wear talk more of washing them. I didn’t know how to thank him, so I called him hug and pecked him and told him how happy I was but told him not to try it again, he told me there was nothing wrong in washing my under wear that after all I am his wife. We laughed it off but it didn’t stop there but I also noticed he had an instant erection when I hugged him but I pretended not to notice so I would not embarrass him any further, he kept on doing it any chance he got that I had no other option than to start hiding my under wear, I don’t even soak them anymore. One night around September, I slept off while we were watching movie late at night only to wake up in his arms when he was carrying me to the bed, I wanted to scream at him but something held me back, I actually like the way he pampers me so I wouldn’t like to discourage him, he carried me as if I was breakable and place me on the bed, covered me with duvet and kissed me goodnight on the fore head before leaving. Aunty Laila, that was the best any man including my husband has ever treated me, I couldn’t sleep again that night, the following days was horrible, the tension was as thick as kpomo, I was actually falling in love with him, I never believed this man came from the same womb with my authoritative husband, in contrast, the difference is clear. One thing led to another and one night when he carried me to bed as usual, I held him back when he wanted to leave and kissed him, he kissed me back and started caressing me, I tried stopping him but I was too weak, my whole soul and body wanted him and so we made love. I felt guilty but I couldn’t stop myself, our affair continued after that night, and to be honest, I had the best time of my life. Last week Wednesday, he came to me with a letter grinning from ear to ear, I told the letter from him and read it, it was a letter of appointment with access bank and the sad news was that  they were posting him to a new branch in Delta state and he  is to resume in march, i have been crying my eyes out begging him not to leave me, he told  me what we had was real but wrong but that he will be coming every weekend, this was the first time he was refusing me something in his entire life, I feel used  because I know if I was in his shoes I wouldn’t leave him just like that upon the sacrifices I made including cheating on my husband. He seduced me into this in the first place. Since then, I have not spoken a word to him. I know I am wrong in everything I have done but you have to be in my shoe, experience what I have experienced before you judge me. . I didn’t know I have become this attached to him. I cry myself to sleep every night and I have lost weight. I don’t know how to survive when he leaves. Please I need help from people who have been in such a situation before to please tell me how to stop loving somebody who dosnt love you anymore
I am having suicidal feelings. It is that bad 

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  1. Bonita Bislam

    February 23, 2016 at 6:38 pm

    This is the first story that touched me here.Hmmmmmmmm.
    Madam pls go on a vacation.To your parent aunts.Just anywhere ma'am. Trust me it'll help

  2. Wilheminna Moses

    February 23, 2016 at 6:41 pm

    Really!? I will be so glad to help u with d suicidal feeling aswear! Ibu ezi bida!

  3. Presh Chinny

    February 23, 2016 at 6:44 pm

    Hmmm… You really need to let go of him… Stop whatsoever feelings u have for him and move on… And when he leaves don't let him come back to your house anymore….. This is the time to concentrate on ur family

  4. Osarhieme Okungbowa

    February 23, 2016 at 7:04 pm

    Not only are you an adulterous woman you are a disgrace to womanhood! When I first started to read your wretched story I thought you were ending in a 'guilty' note and probably begging man and God for your wrong. Instead…!
    Wake up from your delusions woman. (Now mind u even if u wake at this point)harvest yet awaits you big time!
    Leave this young man alone and face your marriage. Mend what's left of the broken union and if you cannot because of the height of your immorality leave and then freely go ahead to find who will assuage the passion in your loins but certainly not your hear?
    And stop giving your hubby a bad name. At this point he's a saint!
    Yeah u got kids right? I fear for their upbringing. Can a woman who lacks virtue bring up children the way they should go?

  5. enoma osaigbovo

    February 23, 2016 at 7:10 pm

    Shameless bitch! After cheating on your husband u still have dirty mouth to talk. Shameless she goat like you.And that wicked useless brother in law of yours another person close to him will bang his wife too…shameless bitch…whore

  6. Rosemary Chidi A.

    February 23, 2016 at 7:10 pm

    Don't even know what to type…
    Just forget abt him some things are not meant to be afterall. Look for sth to busy urself with

  7. alfarsi

    February 23, 2016 at 7:15 pm

    U and ur super story Laila this ain't real only a fool will take it and comment on believing it it's just fictitious fantasy.

  8. Derrick Chidumebi

    February 23, 2016 at 7:15 pm

    You have suicidal feelings? Your husband will soon show you the murderous feelings he has towards you when he learns of this… Mtchew… You are not even remorseful…


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  10. WeALTHY ChIC

    February 23, 2016 at 7:26 pm

    Madam u re a disgrace to Ur family. U slept with Ur brother in law and u had the impetus to come here and blab about being in love with him. SHAME ON YOU.

  11. t

    February 23, 2016 at 7:30 pm

    Read Three Sisters
    Life is beautiful and remains beautiful nothing new under the sun you will live long. Amen.


    February 23, 2016 at 7:39 pm


  13. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 7:44 pm

    Your husband younger brother!! this is an illicit immoral affair. Why not divorce your husband and marry him instead and how does that look. Madam this is Adultery an abomination at the highest order! your story is appalling in-fact it is an aberration. From the way you ended your story it shows you are not even ready to change but enjoying it. My dear repent confess to Jesus and forsake your ways you have to confess to your hubby too. It is obvious you brother in-law does not love his brother did you even think he will marry you? God loves you and He can change you. God bless.

  14. Omalicha Uju

    February 23, 2016 at 7:45 pm

    Super Story!!!!!

  15. Asidanya South

    February 23, 2016 at 7:51 pm

    If I want to type something. Vex no go gree me. Is it the fact that she cheated and foolishly blames d guy for seducing her? Or the fact that she actually has no remorse about her sins? You want to commit suicide lol… Enjoy urself while you are at it.

  16. david kachikwu

    February 23, 2016 at 8:21 pm

    Chai you just commited the worst sin on earth.(ADULTERY) ONE thing you should know is that its wrong. Sleeping with your husband brother. Chai my advice for you. Ask God for forgiveness and don't ever try it again cus if your husband finds out damn you're so so dead.

  17. lizzy Raph

    February 23, 2016 at 8:23 pm

    I understand how you feel it is not easy to be or even live with such a romantic guy who has everything your husband lacks the mistake has already been made i will advise you to go back to God and ask for forgiveness and then tell Him to take away such feelings from you He has all the answers..

  18. chidinma igbokweuche

    February 23, 2016 at 8:43 pm

    My dear u for just waka pass after reading..
    Poster I jst want to ask u one question.. How would you feel if you found out ur hubby ws having an affair with ur sister n has no remorse n is evn killin himself bcos her.
    Wn u answer dt truthfully u hv ur answer

  19. Mazino Oyolo Kigho

    February 23, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    Hope those condemning her of adultery are also free from sin of fornication.

    She is has no remorse feeling.
    Instead of abandoning your sinful ways you want more.
    You deserve no forgiveness from your husband.
    You are a disgrace.
    Because of you husbands will stop trusting their brothers.

  20. popeyes

    February 23, 2016 at 8:50 pm

    Once a woman cheats the first time in her marriage she will always find a reason to do so again. This writer will sleep with the next available man that comes into her home. Houseboy driver maiguard….. all will be fair game for this loose woman.

  21. popeyes

    February 23, 2016 at 8:51 pm

    Once a woman cheats the first time in her marriage she will always find a reason to do so again. This writer will sleep with the next available man that comes into her home. Houseboy driver maiguard….. all will be fair game for this loose woman.

  22. Chukwuebuka jay

    February 23, 2016 at 8:51 pm

    It is well… #Successful

  23. Zombie huntress

    February 23, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    I swear that vex wey dey vex me as a woman myself no make me knw wetin I go type. Your husbands brother?what kind of feeling is that you are not just contented with ur husbands dick and ur husbands bro dick Don sweet u so tele u no fit do without am just go before God and ask for forgiveness u really need jesus

  24. Zombie huntress

    February 23, 2016 at 9:22 pm

    I swear that vex wey dey vex me as a woman myself no make me knw wetin I go type. Your husbands brother?what kind of feeling is that you are not just contented with ur husbands dick and ur husbands bro dick Don sweet u so tele u no fit do without am just go before God and ask for forgiveness u really need jesus

  25. maya naisha

    February 23, 2016 at 9:55 pm

    Ur husbands broda o wow! Lol n u actually first kissed him lol n den ur begn him not to go lol n den ur sucidal madam take a sit pls dis is not an Issue may God sha help u!

  26. Sasha Sasha Fierce

    February 23, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    Isehhhhhhh! Loooolll! My eye af see my ear!!! Ashewo woman. Sacrifice kor. Please don't stop there o. Your neighbour's husband is also very tender and romantic. Go sun kpekus for dia too. Na your husband I jur dey sorry for because if you born three for am two no go be him get.

  27. 9jaWHISPERER

    February 23, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    I have never commented on lailas blog b4 but Aunty i have to …Please try and kill any sort of feeling u have Jesus Love. be disciplined.. their women who lost their husband at an early stage but refused to get married and they cud bear it… u re a woman u can control ur feelings dont let the devil use u. ur husband u get to see him at least ..everybody has their default so dont blame urhubby in his shortcoming

  28. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    The devil must be working on you to have taken you this far. So sinful and shameful at the same time and she is even bold enough to seek advice on how to continue in the act. may God forgive and deliver you WO-man!

  29. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 10:16 pm

    The devil must be working on you to have taken you this far. So sinful and shameful at the same time and she is even bold enough to seek advice on how to continue in the act. may God forgive and deliver you WO-man!

  30. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 10:33 pm

    its well! see a psychologist! #lailaspilot

  31. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 10:41 pm

    Confidential Psychologist available … send a mail to [email protected] to commence urgent counselling… am concerned with "Suicidal Thoughts" am a professional

  32. sir johnny

    February 23, 2016 at 11:03 pm u jst want to break ur husband family nd ur home as well..screwing ur hubby bro nd fallin in love..dont knw wat 2 tell u sef

    As 4 u "suicidal feeling" jst mak sure to use made in 9ja 2 our economy b4 u kil ya sef

  33. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 11:18 pm

    Shut up….its not every time you should comment.

  34. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 11:22 pm

    Aunty Talking from experience?

  35. Ayzee A

    February 23, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    Repeat after me…..I am……I am…..I am……I am…..

  36. kclub

    February 23, 2016 at 11:32 pm

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  37. Anonymous

    February 23, 2016 at 11:41 pm

    Dear adulterous woman kindly go ahead and commit suicide your sins are unforgivable. You might have consolation in hell that you so deserve.

  38. Rotten Tomatoes

    February 23, 2016 at 11:42 pm

    See God talking….. The author n finisher of people's faith…… Almighty judge of d whole world….. King of all virtuous babez….. I bow 4 u

  39. Rotten Tomatoes

    February 23, 2016 at 11:45 pm

    Worst sin on earth……. Waooow

  40. Rotten Tomatoes

    February 23, 2016 at 11:46 pm

    Are u minding them…… See them and their bag of stones looking for who to kill with it……

  41. Lady B

    February 23, 2016 at 11:57 pm


  42. Lady B

    February 23, 2016 at 11:58 pm


  43. Culture

    February 23, 2016 at 11:59 pm

    Leave your husband's brother alone phucking bitch or are you insane?!…..There are other nice and romantic Guyz out there….Many randy d*cks to satisfy your craving P*ss and incase you forgot you're married take a look at your Son….You need to Overhaul your mind coz When you love d*ck pass life itself you will always feel lonely even in the midst of a great crowd coz you just wanna hide and f*ck….Abeg make I no get your report again say you kill yourself because of Oga brother D*ck ohh.

  44. nnaji Anne

    February 24, 2016 at 12:08 am

    Sniper kills fast shaa… one tea spoon in the morning

  45. Chris

    February 24, 2016 at 12:08 am

    Some story sha. Woman free your husband and leave the marriage. You are not worthy of him anymore.

  46. Chris

    February 24, 2016 at 12:09 am


  47. tonia oserei

    February 24, 2016 at 12:10 am

    Madam may thunder strike u as u are comitting suicide. And as for dat useless brother inlaw of urs may his wife be banged by someone very close to him. D both of u are trash . Dontforget to comitt suicide ohhh. Death awaits d useless brother inlaw oshi

  48. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 12:29 am

    Ask God's forgiveness first. You need to forgive yourself too. The sooner you find something to do the better. Focus on rebuilding your relationship with God your husband yourself and child. The greater the distance between you and bro-in-law the better for you. He's going to move on with his life and all you'll have is your family… He's not worth it.

  49. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 12:48 am

    I cannot condemn you because every one on this blog are not better than you and yet they are condemning you. Take a new leave forgive yourself confess your sin to your husband and God. Then continuously ask for mercy while living a new life that will please God but the consequences must surely come (Adultery is a serious offence which God said he will personally supervise the persons punishment).If God supervises your punishment who can deliver you.

  50. saint phonsz

    February 24, 2016 at 12:54 am

    Rotten Tomatoes are you married? Something tells me you're either the poster or you've had similar affair

  51. Ebuka favour

    February 24, 2016 at 1:18 am


  52. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 2:19 am

    Lol didn't you just judge and condem her too?

  53. The stone

    February 24, 2016 at 7:01 am

    Why is everybody condemning her like this? as if u are all free from sin. She has self awareness realising she needs help which is seen from her penultimate sentence.
    Pls my dear visit a counsellor because you need to talk to someone its a burden in your heart that must be let out. Find something you love and be engulfed with it you will be fine. But ultimately you have to confess to your husband and face what ever consequence that comes from it after asking God for that you will be free otherwise you will continually be in bondage cos of the act with your brother in law.

  54. The stone

    February 24, 2016 at 7:02 am

    Well said

  55. The stone

    February 24, 2016 at 7:05 am


  56. cynthia kama

    February 24, 2016 at 7:21 am

    Rotten Tomatoes…[email protected] your comment.

  57. Bamidele

    February 24, 2016 at 7:23 am


  58. Sweetest Vivienne

    February 24, 2016 at 8:13 am

    U guys are so mean

  59. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 8:44 am


  60. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 9:07 am

    Hahaha… you're very wicked ooo… Lmao @ use naija rope and add to the economy…..

  61. Faith Samuel

    February 24, 2016 at 9:24 am


  62. Michelle Ojong

    February 24, 2016 at 10:51 am

    Single people be judging married people. Make una marry first and see wassup. P.s: not saying what she did was right but make una judge small small.

  63. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 10:57 am

    Dear Friend i am going through the same exact thing only mine happened a little differently. I am head over heals with my husband's younger cousin to the point that i do not know what to do if and when the story ends. we can hook up and have a heart to heart if you do not mind. i will share my details with Laila via email and if i honestly hope she shares it with you. i would very much like to speak to you together we can get over this.

  64. lisa peters

    February 24, 2016 at 11:01 am

    I share the same feeling with Bonita most of the beautiful things we feel or see are always wrong … let go and be focused you shouldn't have allowed it in the first place ….anyway who am I to judge ?

  65. lisa peters

    February 24, 2016 at 11:03 am


  66. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 12:21 pm

    If it was a man will you say the same? Bias bunch.

  67. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 1:13 pm

    You didnt tell us if you guys have had sex….Mehn….you ladies are scaring a young bachelor here….NO other MALES in the house when person marry…NOT even a MALE cat.

  68. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    Lady! if really you are married from your write up then you MUST be delusional. Trust me!

  69. Ifeoluwa

    February 24, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    Normally I do not judge people because I believe growth is different. But I just can't stand it when people justify their actions or try to garner pity for it. Now u said urself u have noticed he was getting too close when u by ur suggestion invited him into your home. Who should have been avoiding like a plague if not him? Don't you have a sister or even brother to keep you company? I am sorry but I feel like you had it coming. Also you pulled him in to kiss him and then we he started u asked him abi na wanted him to stop really? Anyways the deed is done and I hope you now see that the guy doesn't love you he is a just a selfish fool that wanted to have his way with you. And I don't understand people's kind of love that is targeted at hurting others ppl be excusing evil for love. Whatever is making you want to kill urself is not love. He probably was better in bed than your husband and that's what's affecting you. Solution: ask for forgiveness ask God to deliver you from lust get occupied or u will just kill urself for the most selfish reason ever: lust.
    Excuse any typos

  70. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 3:44 pm

    Fake story. Access bank will not post you immediately to Delta state. You will do training school in Lagos first for about 3/4 months. Ijeoma i sight what you are doing.

  71. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    Heiya. This goes a long way to show that if you treat a lady very well she will love you the more. I really learnt a lot from your story. I just have to start treating my swidi right. Now I realize I've not been living up to expectation but with this your story I have to step up my game towards my lady. Thanks for sharing and I hope you correct yourself and do what is right.

  72. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 5:57 pm

    Lol youre the ignorant one….3 – 4 months in lagos keh? LOL

  73. Godwin Liwhu

    February 24, 2016 at 6:08 pm


  74. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    Me too I have never commented on laila's blog b4. But wait o! who ask u weda u don comment b4 or not. Smh

  75. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    Your insult isn't needed. Just help the lady with an advice if you have any and stop acting righteous.

  76. Anonymous

    February 24, 2016 at 10:09 pm

    Either 1 or 2 of these 3 things is involved in this situation.

    1) This story is fake.

    2) Your brother-in-law is trying to get back at your husband for some un reconciled issues they had in the past (perhaps when they were growing up)

    3) You are both very dumb and weak in the flesh.

  77. Kuchifire

    February 24, 2016 at 11:31 pm

    All a woman needs is love. Give her the kind of love she wants and she's yours.

    Now dear poster I realize that sometimes the wrong things are easier and enjoyable "at the moment " but the consequences are usually grave. Think about your husband what will you do if he sleeps with your sister? How will you react if he not only sleeps with her but is into her to? How would his actions affect your family and immediate family if you were in his shoes now? After you have thought of these I would advise that you kindly use your energy to seek God first not for anything else but to make your ways straight with Him. Once you've done that the rest of the situation would be easier for you to bear but don't forget you'll have the effects of your actions your actions has caused but trust God FIRMLY.

  78. Kuchifire

    February 24, 2016 at 11:31 pm

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  79. Anonymous

    February 27, 2016 at 6:37 pm

    Dumb ass.

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